mtb, thanks! I may have known that before. I hit 50 last year so the memory ain't what it once was!
As you may know, my first sitch was at the end of 2005. I found MWD, but not this forum. So when my 2nd BD hit 12 years later, I was in mistake mode for 2 days before remembering DBing. Found this forum a few weeks later. While our conclusions were different, the fact that we both DB'd to save ourselves and improve is really where the power in DBing lies. We are both setup for better Rs, with or without our Ws!
Kudos to you. You were exemplary in putting your kids first. I admire that so much about you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018