That’s a tough one West. If it were me, I would consider what the needs of my son are apart from H in this scenario. I’m not sure it is a question of fairness. If your H is spending money on the ferry, is that going to impact you and/or your son in a negative way? My XH and I have made it a priority to put our kids first and coparent in a way that impacts them as little as possible. For instance...my D12 wants to act in a play which involves going to a rehearsal every Thursday really close to my home but far from his. She already does quite a few activities (all of them close to my house and far from his) and he is tired of all the driving so didn’t want her to do it this time. I totally get it. But I really wanted my daughter to have the opportunity so every other Thursday, when she is at his house, I offered to pick her up from rehearsal and drive her to his place. Not my preference but I’m okay with it. Anyway...that’s just my two cents. I obviously don’t know the ins and outs of your situation. My advice would be to try to make your decisions based on logic and reason and not on emotion. When your hurt eventually fades, you will be glad you did. (((HUGS)))
