We have been getting quite a few concerns about spouses looking at postings that the posters post here. I have several suggestions for those who are concerned:
1. Go in and change your display name; and/or
2; Create a new name and start a new thread, but don't provide as much info as you have in your previous threads. Be sure to notify the moderators of who you were previously so that we can get you off moderation as quickly as possible.
Cadet may have some other suggestions.
I don't agree about the changing your name - unless you are going to use a different e-mail address and a new account. If they have already bookmarked your threads then changing the display name will be obvious to them
My ex wife had a username here but never posted. She was stalking me to get information to use in court.
So be aware that the likely reason is that.
Certainly in a normal marriage being totally honest with your partner is a must. But in these situations you are being lied to and nothing good usually comes from being spied on here.
Clear your browser history, and try to use a different device than what they use. How did they find you here and what can you do differently to stop that from happening again.
