We have been getting quite a few concerns about spouses looking at postings that the posters post here. I have several suggestions for those who are concerned:

1. Go in and change your display name; and/or

2; Create a new name and start a new thread, but don't provide as much info as you have in your previous threads. Be sure to notify the moderators of who you were previously so that we can get you off moderation as quickly as possible.

Cadet may have some other suggestions.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.