Are you sure that you and your h have a savings account? If you aren't sure, check with the bank. If it is a joint account, you should be able to get info on it. Are you aware if your H has an IRA account in addition to his normal retirement?
Also, be sure to ask about health insurance.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
