We had a blazing row last night. WW said she didn't know if she could commit to the separation agreement beacause, in her own words, "what if I fall in love?"
I looked back through your thread but could not find where you talked about a separation agreement, were you trying to get her to agree not to date while separated? If so then you can't really enforce that. We were just discussing this in another thread but when you separate you can't realistically establish relationship rules in S, because there isn't a relationship anymore.
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I am fully prepared to expose her to her family if she defaults on the agreement. She hasn't told anyone yet.
For what purpose? Revenge? It won't do any good. Her family will side with her no matter what. You'll end up looking like the bad guy (petty, vindictive, etc. etc.) if you try to "out" her.
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Not sure where to go from here.
Give yourself some time to settle down and think about things more clearly. Use time effectively.
