Great advice from FS Paco. You need to get busy. Ruminating and feeling sorry for yourself is not going to get you anywhere. Trust me. I know what you are going through. We all do. We’ve all been there. And most of us put off taking the advice on here because it was too hard and counterintuitive and very, very scary. And doing that only prolonged the nightmare we were living in. There IS life after your W. There IS!!! You just have to have faith and put all of your energy into getting YOU back. Stop worrying about what she is doing or not doing because you can bet she isn’t worrying or wondering about you. She doesn’t have to. She knows EXACTLY what you are doing and knows that you are most definitely Plan B. That is the WORST thing she can think about you as it leaves you solidly in limbo and her in the driver’s seat. Get back behind the wheel Paco!! (((HUGS)))
