There is an old saying Wolf. "Never let the left hand know what the right hand is doing." Now if I remember correctly in your sich, not too long ago. (And yes I will find it.) That your XW accused you of seeing someone else because she heard through mutual friends. Give me the truth here. Were you seeing someone at that time when XW was accusing you of it? Now with that said. We all know people are going to hide $hit. Act like they are single... Keep to themselves. Not communicate their business, what they are doing where they are going in these situations.. Yada yada..No reason to broadcast it. Now. Refresh my memory. You are currently divorced and and divorce is finalized correct? At XW's initiative? On one hand? What did she expect? Every one moves on at different paces. On the other hand. It does appear you are rubbing her nose in it and giving her, her family, and mutual friends all the confirmation they need to XW'S narrative of how you neglected her and made everything about you in the M. Im starting to wonder if the both of you have narcisstic tendencies. (Not full blown narcissism.) We all have these tendencies in certain areas of our lives. You are pouring gasoline on the fire my friend. Should have unfriended her on FB the minute you seperated. Unless she went looking for it. You should have definately had all your stuff and tools out before even attempting to broadcast stuff like that. What really concerns me in the long haul for you is, I know your happy with this other person right now. I hope you are growing. All of us are afraid here that you haven't taken the time alone and single to Introspect how you want your life to look, grow and change going forward. Especially in the area of relationships. Make sure you learn from your mistakes from R with XW. Or you are going to repeat the same behaviors in this one. WRITE THEM DOWN! RESOLVE TO WORK ON THEM EVERY DAY. It sounds like you are experiencing a retaliatory response from all the Ex's. Is it right? Is it wrong? Is it justified? Who knows? Everyone thinks differently. But YOU definately set youself up for it. So deal with it.
