Sorry Wolf. I stay FAR AWAY from making any comments about my personal life on Facebook. You never know how it is going to be perceived by others. Her reaction was probably fairly predictable when you really think about it. Yes...She wanted a divorce...so this is what she set herself up for. But...remember...she wanted a divorce because in her mind, you were a crap husband who didn’t show her love and affection, took her for granted, etc... She has a whole story in her head that it is all about you and not about her at all. Your declaration on FB tells her, and anybody else who is reading, that it is, in fact, all about her because you are perfectly happy now. Do you see how that might come across? If you were in her position, how would you feel? Maybe you didn’t know it would send her off the deep end like this but when you posted that, you knew it would affect her in some way. It was a bit like rubbing her nose in it. Thankfully, my XH blocked me a long time ago so I never have to see any of his posts which, I’m sure, are pretty thoughtless as well. Also...mutual friends who are reading your post and not privy to the ins and outs of your M are probably not as happy for you as you would like to think. Many of them are probably thinking that you moved on relatively fast and rubbing XW’s nose in it and having some judgment about that. Not saying you don’t have every right to post that you are happy but just know that you are taking a risk when you do. (((HUGS)))
