Going back on myself, but just adding what may be a pertinent point. On Sunday the tabs open on family computer where multiple searches on can you get back together after a seperation. This was night before she suggested trial seperation. She's all over the place right now, I know she is going through stacks of turmoil with the trauma recovery on top. Thinking more and more there are signs of MLC.
She speaks more and more about who she was and who she wants to be in the future.
Don't know why I'm adding this, just another sign of my reactivity and where my focus is.
