Thanks IHCLACS Trying to make this switch, stop reacting to her rollercoaster, it's backwards and forwards for me right now, with work and the kids and my own emotional issues/ yearning it's day by day.
But need to actually plan more for myself, short term and long term goals. My major cheeseless tunnel right now is seeking some reassurance or glimmer of hope from W. Seeking breadcrumbs right now.