Originally Posted by LH19
J,

Let’s say you’re right and she’s confused. Don’t you think if she was confused she would lean towards doing the right thing and working on the marriage?

Yes it’s like she gets a 6 month free pass to get out on the market to see what’s available and if it doesn’t go well she come to you and says ok trial separation over.



Hypergamy and only being as good as their options. Pay attention to their actions. But don't let them consume you. You keep the focus on you. The better you. The I want to change and be a man drive, authenticity, and action you. They make rules for betas and break them for alphas. Give them the space. You are the prize.