At least she has not asked me to pay for things outside of the CS I give her.

I also don't itemize everything I do either. For example, I bought my D indoor soccer shoes this past weekend that were around $40. I didn't make her pay half so truthfully she has it pretty easy with me.

Tonight I am picking up my girls from school because my youngest has practice and my XW has to go to an incoming 6th grade parent meeting. Since I live a mile away from the school it is better for my daughters if they come with me, have dinner at the house, etc. than it is for them to go my XW's place and be left alone. I just won't do that just because it is "her" week.

As this process continues I am gradually learning who seems to bear more of the responsibility.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018