Thank you Steve and Alison. My thoughts exactly: detachment is still the way to go and chasing after her is a bad idea.
A question,
I noticed W took off her wedding ring and has never worn it ever since the BD. I still wear mine occasionally, should I keep it on? Or does it send the wrong signal to W? W does notice I am still wearing it. Wondering what’s the general consensus here on keeping the ring on when DB-ing.
M: 28 W: 30 T: 2 years Married: Nov 2019 BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)