What does the legal agreement/order say about what the XW is on about (dont tell us though as it may be confidential)? If it's covered in the document, go with what's in there, and maybe say "Hi XW, thanks for asking. I think it's best if we just stick to our legal agreement. Will let D know of your well wishes - thank you. Regards, Roo".
On 2nd thoughts, Given the circumstances where she is taking it back to Court, I frankly feel this is something that should be corresponded between your respective L's, and I also agree with your feelings behind why the email was sent. This sidelines you having to get involved and removes the dilemma of how you would respond. YOur L can advise you about the legal agreement, and what are your options in responding.
Do that through your L, and be done with it mate.
Last edited by DS9; 01/14/2005:12 AM.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
