Cardinal, thank you. You are so right - I could work on trying to achieve the pros in my current circumstances. It has only been a little over 2 months since BD for me and it feels like an eternity. I feel like it is hard to focus on GAL when alien H is constantly distracting me with his nonsense.

Also part of me wants to get revenge and telling him he can no longer do what he planned (stay in the basement) would give me some satisfaction. Well, only temporarily so this is stupid thinking, I know. It's just that he seems to be oblivious to the pain and damage he is causing. I want him to feel some consequences NOW.

I am inspired by your 7 months. I will try to hang in there. Thanks for your encouragement.

Last edited by HesAble; 01/14/20 03:37 AM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years