I'd also suggest to slow down. Like school zone speed.

You've only been here a very short time and just recently discovered communication between your W and OM.

What has changed in the last couple of days?

Heck, what has changed since you arrived here?

Are your relationship skills improved?

Has your W done anything to regain your trust?

Has she done any work to address her part of the demise of your MR?

There are plenty of questions that need to be answered, before jumping right into recon.....and there needs to be transparency on her part. Breath, and don't race to the end. Otherwise, you have to start over. Been there, done that.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa