(((HaWho))) Tough news regardless of where you are at in your sitch. But...definitely emphasizes the need to move forward and embrace whatever it is that life has in store for you. Could be better than you ever imagined. I agree with what others have said about your kids. Let them know that you know and that you are okay and there for them if they ever want to talk about it. It will be a relief to them to know that they don’t have to keep things from you. Sending you lots of (((HUGS))) from across the miles.