Guilt and shame for what she has done means she has a conscience, P.
If she won't hear your pain then by all means you don't have to entertain her talks. Since you aren't filing for divorce I take it you still have hopes for your marriage.
Your last sentence sounds quite harsh. Do you think that mindset is going to help your or your sitch at all? It seems like a good opportunity to validate and hear her. But if you can't then you can't, I get that.
Why do you think she was trying to prove where she was of she was hellbent on pushing through this divorce? I'm not saying to believe it was not a show, but these actions could mean something positive.
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H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
