Thank you all so much. I appreciate the advice.

KML - I think you might be right because looking back at the texts he was fishing to see if I knew.

I woke up this morning and resolved to make the next 5 years of my life amazing. This is not just for me, but for my kids. I am going to show them that while there are those lose the plot in their midlife others get wise and shift into high gear.

And years later they will remember that about me and I will tell them THAT is their DNA.

So thankful to have you all here for support.

Onwards and upwards always.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced