Kindly,

You will see the normal H..only time will tell especially by his continued actions

Sometimes they have touch and gos...they get closer only to distance again

Keep expectations low and go about your daily life
no pressure
lots of space
busy new activities
fun

its ok to show concern and offer help to a person who feels ill...
just try not to mother him
He will have to get used to caring for himself

they are not sure if their decision is a good one
I think they check back to connect at times, but the crises will take them again
I would not read too much into it...

just watch from the distance as you go about your life


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow