Hey Paco, just forget about time. It´s not easy, I know, but it´s an exercise you need to daily improve. Keep your own inner work and keep DB rules at sight: detach some more.
Use adversity in your favour, keep dark except for the children.
You need patience, BE pacient. It takes time for you, it takes time for her. How much? Who knows. All you know is you can´t sit waiting for it.
