Yes, you are focusing too much on being ripped off. Make a list of lawyers, do a search on line and then talk to some of your friends as they may know something about one or two of the lawyers. Look for those who offer free consultations as well.
Trust me, many of them have been down this road w/other clients. If they start pushing you for filing, then I would stop them in their tracks and advise them that you are on a fact finding mission and want to know what you are entitled to and that if and when you decide to file, you will let him/her know. The lawyer I went with didn't push, but gently guided me along as I navigated my situation.
Make that list of questions you want answers to and start your search this week. Remember, you are the client and the lawyer is working for you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
