Newlywed and in crisis

[funbun]

Ouch. That was rather hard for me to read Sandi. However, maybe you are right. I’ll contemplate on it further.

Recently, her family advised me to be patient and try to do things to gently win her back. They suggested texting her from time to time, initiating conversation. Basically, since I am the “sane” one and also since I am a man, I should be the one apologizing first and try to gently win her back. “Women like to be charmed and treated like a princess” they said.

Sounds like persuading and chasing to me, which to my understanding is something I shouldn’t do when detaching..? Or should I try it and see what happens?