Patience and Limbo (Core thread 3)

[Core]

Steve, Mario you said awhile back to have patience. Thats when it wasnt 100 percent sure if the EA continued. Now I know its still happening. Is the fix here to sit and let it happen? That doesnt feel right at all. Nothing I can do that isnt controlling or punishing, so what do I do? W legit said she wants the family unit but doesnt want to work on the marriage and I think indirectly said she wants the EA to continue.

This SOB contacting her went on instagram to write about love (potentially about my wife if she isnt lying). They are out there. So I keep working my 9 to 5 and pretend this isnt happening which seems foolish now. What have others done? Im not about to wait out a full EA. W admitted it wouldnt work with them yet still needs the fix. So who knows when another suitor appears.