Your h saw your email and the info...but he's choosing to ignore it. He may be like OwnIt's OD when it comes to trying to settle up stuff for a divorce. The tax situation may have something in it for him, i.e., like a little bit of a return. He knows that filing taxes is a must...but he most likely will drag his feet on the pension stuff.
Enjoy your dinner and have fun planning your next trip!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.