Now, people are becoming more aware of what is happening and what might trigger such behavior.
Some counselors don't believe in it...but we always recommend getting solution based counselors.
Trust me, lawyers can spot a MLC case a mile way and if a sleazy lawyer is representing a MLCer, all they are looking at is the bottom line...$$$.
Job this is encouraging to hear...meaning your first sentence! Lol I had a therapist but I found I was getting much more out of talking to my inner circle and now DEFINITELY this forum...it’s too expensive to not feel like your getting anywhere. I actually read an article on solution based C but I need to dig deeper into who offers this type of C and see if I can benefit from that. I think the million dollar piece of advice offered here repeatedly for people in this situation, as difficult as it is to read and put into effect, is GAL and detach. I’m in the learning stages, I’m still sad but I’m seeing a little clearer each day now.
I despise that there are such dishonest people out there that will take advantage of someone in an awful position. Other than doing your homework to the best of your ability I feel scared that a lot of this comes down to hoping you choose well.
