Patience and Limbo (Core thread 3)

[Core]

LH, I hear you. Both options suck. I cant pull the trigger on divorce. Yet. My friend is surviving and becoming happier after his marriage where a PA lasted for a long time. Im reasoning with myself, telling myself this is her sickness, like mine was anxiety. The longer this lasts though, the more me and the kids seem to lose, and the more she gains.

That's irking me too. I'd love to be SAHD, spending all day with the kids, having a spouse come home to share all the fun events with. Not only is she SAHM, she also gets the best of both worlds with OM and I. She stated twice this AM how good a dad and man I am, but terrible husband.