Overall things have been better and I've seen slight improvements and changes in her and her behaviour.
She even asked me last Friday to spend the evening with her (she didn't stay over). That was a first in 13 months.
My question:
Her lease is up at the end of January and her options were 1) Move back home with us 2) Move in with her mom and pay down some debt 3) find a new place month to month.
She seems to really want #3 right now as we've both agreed it's not best at this point for her to move fully in. She's starting her counselling on Monday and knows she needs to figure her life out. I was hoping she would choose to live with her mom for a bit and pay down some debt.
Anyways - She continues to be a little wishy washy with me and I'm doing my best to stay neutral whether she says something positive or negative. The fact that she's choosing option #3 makes me feel like there may be unfinished business with a potential OM (although no OM has been confirmed). She says she doesn't want to move back in with her mom because it reminds her of her dad too much and makes her sad and she feels that's not good for someone who has been struggling with depression. And that house is one hour away from my house where my son lives.
So it makes sense but I'm skeptical...my problem is I don't want to be skeptical of her actions - but I guess until I have the trust back I will be and that's probably smart.
I guess I don't really have a question, just some thoughts on what's currently going on...
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
