Actually, MLC is being discussed more and more in the community. Many moons ago, people didn't discuss MLC. In this day and age, thanks to Bill Clinton and others, people are talking more and more about the irrational behavior that some exhibit at certain ages.
Years ago, people would laugh at men who changed the way they dressed, i.e., from normal suits to shirts being only buttoned at the last two buttons, gold chains around their necks, the little red sports car and the young, blonde bimbo on their arms.
Now, people are becoming more aware of what is happening and what might trigger such behavior.
Some counselors don't believe in it...but we always recommend getting solution based counselors.
Trust me, lawyers can spot a MLC case a mile way and if a sleazy lawyer is representing a MLCer, all they are looking at is the bottom line...$$$.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.