At each interview, I stated my situation and watched the lawyer. I asked each of them if they were familiar with MLC. I then asked how many cases of MLC marriage breakups had they been involved in.
Thanks Job as obvious as this question is I never thought to ask it....I always disclose this as being the situation but the last L I saw kinda just stared blankly at me. It’s prob also my own insecurities creeping in as in feeling/assuming that people are thinking “you poor dear in denial that your husband is sick of you ....you didn’t please him”.......blah blah blah.
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I then thanked each one and came home and made my list and the one I choose was the most honest one of all who told me that it would take many months and much frustration to lock down my MLC husband because he would be irrational and nothing would please him. He was right...
I hope my experience will help you a wee bit.
Great to know what realistically could happen. If H doesn’t start to come back this likely could be my situation too. Although I won’t put that out into the universe ...or did I just do that? Haha.
I also get the express feeling that many people ...docs, C, L etc feel like MLC is a myth which is what plays into my above insecurity. Anyone else feel that way?
