Questions from a LBS 5 months in

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Most definitely , let the L handle all of it

Usually his L will discuss his need for honesty in this matter
each party does need to disclose all assets as I remember

My XH was good all the way up to the D,
then I saw him get crazy because he clearly saw maybe first hand
his choices would lead him down a potential path for financial destruction
and he was overspending on OW, which is also an issue with joint funds.

The D becomes a business deal
You are no longer in the same kind of R as you once were and as you read and see a MLCer H
will not be in his right mind
He will want to plan for his future with no regard to the spouse or kids
I saw this first hand

I had a once dedicated H and father
He was a good father, there for them
and he chose to totally abandon them as his father did to him

Please take the advise given here..
It works

I would up saving our business and I kept the home because I had a smart L
Divorce L totally get MLC
get a good one