Thanks for the head up Jac12. Yes, I’ve suspected it for weeks but last night had confirmation. She only surrendered the info when it was absolutely obvious I’d seen the whole chat history and knew. Last night we talked detail about the A but I’m nervous the EA is greater than the A and she won’t want to break it off (yet). She still thinks he’s wonderful although of course I see an opportunistic little scumbag with no scruples. I’m going to ask her tonight about it and if she refuses I’m not ready to extend the olive branch. She will need to figure that out on her own and I’ll make it quite clear we can’t heal or R unless that happens. She will need to rebuild my trust while I figure out if I can take her back.
