Also, she is in IC. She had done that before and then took a break. She started that again a two months ago. She hasn’t gone since before Christmas so I’m not sure whether or not she plans to continue it as we don’t discuss it. In order to get her to start going again I began going a couple months back too. I just had a feeling that if i did it she would. I’ll admit i hate and don’t see the point really. Maybe I just don’t connect with my guy. I’ve used the divorce busting coaches in the past and I get a lot more from them. My current IC seems to want me to work on feeling my feelings, which is the same thing the MC seems to want.