Tonight I spent some quality time with the kids. H is missing out on so much bonding time with his children In just 4-1/2 years, D13 will likely be going off to college or moving out to pursue some other venture.
H stays out until late most nights (and many times he is out all night). I truly believe there is some OW but I do not have proof. When H comes in (if he comes home at all), he usually spends 10 minutes or less (usually less) with the kids, then he goes straight to the basement where he hides out until the next morning.
What upsets me most is that I feel like he is tormenting me to force me to agree to the divorce he wants. Has he ever loved me or was it all an act?
I am praying for strength to deal with this long term because it is very difficult to see now how I will be able to endure the emotional turmoil. Spending some time this evening to read some more of my DR book.
Last edited by HesAble; 01/11/2003:51 AM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
