Funny how often that happens. The by the time the WAW wants to come back to the marriage, the other spouse is just done, and wants nothing to do with them. Some actually do come full circle, as I did oh, so I would urge you to keep an open mind, and heart, in case she ever does turn back and goes back to resembling the girl you fell in love with. Either way, keep up with your self-improvement and GALs, I'm glad to hear that you are moving forward!
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3