Originally Posted by RVM
...Been lurking for a few weeks...Besides reading DR and the threads on this site, anything in particular I should do ASAP?



Commit to personal growth. Do not let fear control you. Face your fears. What you fear you attract.


Do not fear your wife. Do not fear divorce. Do not fear change.


Do not show your emotions. The first one to react emotionally looses.


Project confidence. Command respect. Be attractive. Be seductive. Set and enforce boundaries.

Forgive yourselves. Forgive others.

And above all else, know you will be OK at the end of this process.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712