You were a useful appliance that she knew where all the knobs were and how they worked. New BF probably isn't as familiar a tool.
This is starting to veer into the "you fired me from that job - figure it out" territory.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells