I know G......I guess I still have a little anger in me that comes out once in a while. Truthfully she is on her own, her parents/siblings live out in CA and provide her with no support. My job brought us here so back then it was a non-issue so wants to get a Divorce now her she is. Not sure where her BF is in this picture but I guess he is not an option although they have been together for over 2 years.