I’m going to play devils advocate here. I know this is what she wanted, divorce. I know she she asked for this.
But I could empathize with her. It’s really hard when you don’t make a certain a salary. When you just want to give your kids everything you can so they don’t feel it and you make make a bad decision like overspend on Christmas. It really really stinks.
And come on, yes, this is who your daughters spend half of their time with. And you know she is a good mom too. You’ve said it many times . She probably really did overspend in Christmas not wanting to make it feel like any less of a Christmas. And she didn’t ask for you to give her money, just to give her money early. I’m going to imagine to ask you and tell you why, probably really killed her.