I actually think that the reason why there are so many divorces and so many people cheating is partly due to others NOT passing judgement. I think that maybe if it became more socially unacceptable to do these things that people would seek other choices to actually repair thier damaged relationships.
My XH says now that he went into the marriage thinking that D was a viable option if it didn't work out. With that attitude, IMHO, we start out at a deficit!
