I understand the concept of not passing judgement and needing a basic understanding of the nature of affairs to do so, however I can't help but think that becoming a society that accepts and tries to understand all forms of "devient" behavior is leading us toward trouble.
sure on the one hand those that are aware of how affairs happen are less likely to find themselves having one but living in a society where it's becoming acceptable through understanding (if not somewhat expected) the statistics will only continue to rise (lack of accountability).
I am not saying that we should pass any moral (or other kind) judgement on those that have affairs I'm simply questioning the value in all the understanding and accepting thats rampant in our culture.
I sit on the edge at times myself.
not an extremely religious person myself but when it comes down to it there is validity in "let he who is without sin cast the first stone." that phrase does not mean "let he who feels their sins are less throw the first stone"
I guess I'm pondering a cultures direction rather than addressing the sole issue of infidelity.
