Just venting a bit and a reminder that not all is rosey with our x spouses. The xw just called me and asked if I could send her some CS money early as she only had 50 bucks or so to her name. She also said her credit cards are maxed and she hasn't felt this way since college.
I thought to myself wtf I know what you got in our divorce. Anyway, I can't send my girls to her with no money and not being able to buy groceries so I sent her some money early. She said she overspent on Christmas.
I feel bad for her and obviously she let me inside the curtain but I mean it's just crazy and an unfortunate situation.
I told her I couldn't always send anything early I really cant but I also dont want to set the expectation that I can either. I guess she is struggling more than I might realize.
