Quote: First, gang... let's remember INFIDELITY WILL EVENTUALLY TOUCH 80% OF ALL MARRIAGES IN THE U.S., AT SOME TIME DURING THIER DURATION. Think about that. That means that out of every TWENTY married people in the United States, EIGHT TO SIXTEEN OF THEM WILL EVENTUALLY CHEAT!
Not necessarily. Statistics can be twisted to mean anything one wants. It could mean that the same cheating spouses just keep getting D'd and remarried.
It didn't say that 80% of spouses cheat, it said that, "INFIDELITY WILL EVENTUALLY TOUCH 80% OF ALL MARRIAGES IN THE U.S." The same people could be doing all the cheating.
Quote: Through my affair, I have learned important things about myself, life, love, and marriage... I have gained amazing insights that I could NEVER have gained without direct experience.
Gee, that's really something to be proud of, Annalise!
Quote: I am not saying infidelity is "okay." I am saying it is FAR from a black and white issue, and people on both sides of the fence deserve respect and support.
Yes, they do, if they can see that they have made a mistake and are trying to save their marriage. Why should we support someone who is wanting to dump their W for a married OW? Why should we respect him? Respect has to be earned.
