"Walking out of the Valley" 2.0

[joejoe1]

P,

You live in GA? I will be in GA/Augusta next week for work.

You are getting a lot of advice ranging in different directions. I was getting the same thing when I got here. What I had to do was try each and see which person information worked the best for me and my sitch.

I think you need to do the same. I really like the list you have above. Its a great starting point.

Stop responding and reacting to all her antics. Even when she's right in front of you, learn how to not react. That tore my W up. When her actions were no longer affecting me, her first reactions were anger towards me and antagonist things. And when I didn't react to those actions, she started to distance herself and when I kept moving forward, I think she started to see, I was just putting on a show. But I took for me to walk thru all those test (I will call them test) before I start to see any credible changes. That took about a month an half of consistency. I didn't argue or react to her for over a month and that caused her to rethink her actions. That timeframe won't be the same for all sitch's, but no matter what I had to start and so do you.

Joejoe