Alright, so you texted (really?) telling her to leave. She said no. Now what are you doing to do P? This is why we are constantly saying DO NOT MAKE THREATS UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO BACK THEM UP. Because otherwise you look weak and powerless, and even cowardly if you back down. You need to come up with a plan of action that doesn't involve asking her to do anything, and you need to follow through on it. Actions, not words.
My plan at this point: 1. Today my check at the end of the month will be going into another account I set up direct deposit. 2. Go Dark only answer text about kids 3. Take my phone off of her phone account and get my individual account. 4. 180’s and GAL - I spent the night with oldest son in Statesboro Tuesday. She did not like it. 5. She is living in another room and lock has been changed on MBR door. 6. House will be for Sell starting next week and Realtor will be looking at the house to give me advice on selling it myself. 7. File for D when I’m ready and very close to being ready. Spoke with lawyer today about situation concerning her employment and if she was to lose her job.