We had relatives stay with us for a while and it wasn't an option for me as she dropped the bomb then. I didn't want to create a huge scene. This is before I discovered the DB forum.
Are you willing to take it back? Since she is cheating on you I would not only suggest going back to the MBR but letting her know she is no longer welcome in it until she proves she is not sleeping with OM.
Unfortunately the time has passed for this as we have designated private areas with the MBR being hers and the downstairs bedroom being where I sleep.
Is that the old Drh talking? Or the new and improved Drh talking?
Think about it, what would your W think if you went home tonight and took back the MBR? Would she be angry? Probably. Would she pitch a fit? Probably. Would she protest vehemently? Absolutely.
But she'd also see a man that is standing up for himself. Commanding respect. That was cheated on and eventually said "I am not the one at fault here, you are, so YOU should sleep in the basement!"
Just a thought.
P.S. What have you got to lose?
Last edited by Cadet; 02/05/2002:27 PM. Reason: combine posts
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
