Alright, so you texted (really?) telling her to leave. She said no. Now what are you doing to do P? This is why we are constantly saying DO NOT MAKE THREATS UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO BACK THEM UP. Because otherwise you look weak and powerless, and even cowardly if you back down. You need to come up with a plan of action that doesn't involve asking her to do anything, and you need to follow through on it. Actions, not words.
