Which is all the more reason to throw the Hail Mary pass at this point. Make him experience the divorce before it happens. NO CONTACT except in your case simple logistics of picking up and dropping up the kid. No talking about cute anecdotes, no letting him in to play daddy with you there, none of that. I do agree that most of them are not sure, mine included, and they'll throw you a little here and there to make sure you're locked in as plan B. Mine signed me up for his company's health insurance for 2020 a week after filing the D in November. WTF. I can't be on there if we are divorced. There is tremendous personal power and relief in letting go. Go on Youtube and look up Jill Scherer's video about the Unstoppable Power of Letting Go.
