BC I appreciate ur comments. I never professed to be angel. I was always honest with my posts. I know Ive done wrong. Im trying to make it right by leaving. And Im not looking for sympathy. Id have to be stupid to seek it here after telling the truth. Im simply stating my case and trying to justify why I did it, and maybe speak to sum1 who went thru or is going sumthing similar. The OW hasnt made ne promises to me. In fact shes told me she intends to stay with her H. In the end I may end up alone for a while. But its my decision. There are other issues involved that have lingered and added to my reason to leave. Nothing to do with OW. Listen if every1 can wrk the marriage..more power to you. Just dont beat up on me cause Im on the opposing team.